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Love and family

Don’t rush. Take the time to love first!

27 July 2021, Seytoo
Don’t rush. Take the time to love first!

There is no love or relationship training at school. We spend years learning about business, but not a week learning how to live together as husband and wife, father and mother.

If everyone is convinced that what matters most is the main thing is to love, that “without love, we are nothing at all,” then it is good to ask ourselves to know what time should be allocated to love in our married life, and even in everyday life.

There is no love or relationship training at school. We spend years learning about business, but not a week learning how to live together as husband and wife, father and mother.

Let’s not miss the basics. We don't take the time to learn to love. Young people often come very often to sexual intercourse instead of first living a time to establish communication and tenderness. Likewise, engaged couples are fond of their dating times, which they always find too short, so that they look forward to being finally married in order to “be together all the time.” However, after a few months, they become disillusioned by realizing that time-consuming elements exist around them: work, transport, education of children, social or ecclesial responsibilities, Internet, television… “To love as one should love, when one really like, no time, no time!”

It is important that spouses realize this wealth that they risk losing. Stop for a moment and say to yourself, “we are missing the point, tomorrow will be too late.” Make dating moments an opportunity where you will take the time to chat and get to know each other, deeply.

In the beginning, there is an effort to make, a willingness to come together, before this heart to heart becomes the pleasure of sitting down. The best gift you can give your loved one is time. And this, even in the moments of intimacy that become unbearable for the wife! Yes, “time is made to love!”

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