How to deal with your wife who cannot stop complaining?

Your wife may have psychological problems or she may be depressed.

She bores you by dint of lamenting her fate. To hear it, everyone, even life, gangs up against her. And this refrain is seriously starting to bore you. She is your wife, the one to whom you have sworn to share your life ... but at this rate, you don't see yourself spending your life listening to her lamentations.

If your wife keeps moaning, maybe she needs you to pay her some attention. So, start by implementing solution 1: show her that you are attentive to her moods and that you are not neglecting her. Normally, after a few days, she will feel reassured that you love her and stop complaining.

If solution 1 doesn't work, go for solution 2: pretend to listen to her and when you have had enough, ask her unequivocally why she never seems to be happy. This solution has the advantage of pushing her to immediately express what she has on her heart but also presents the risk of making you an enemy for life. Caution is therefore required.

Solution 3 is an extreme case: your wife may have psychological problems or she may be depressed. To do this, suggest that she see a doctor who will be in a better position to advise her on the treatment to follow. In this context, you must give him support and comfort.