“I fell in love with him without realizing it... I'm confused, enlighten me...”
Love, relationship and family
“I just wanted us to continue our friendship. But over time we got along every day and I got used to him and him too.”Published on January 13, 2021, Bella Diallo
“Here is my story and I need your advice... By the way there is a guy I was friend with over 2 years ago. At first it was his friend who was in love with me and he wooed me, but I didn't like him. This is the reason why I refused to go out with him at that time. Afterwards when his friend (and my friend too) found out that I didn't like his friend, he started hitting on me and told me he loved me and everything. But at the beginning when he told me that I was not in love with him, I just wanted us to continue our friendship. But over time we got along every day and I got used to him and him too.
Suddenly I fell in love with him without realizing it. But deep down I didn't want to tell him and I kept it to myself until the day I couldn't take it anymore because I was in pain deep inside. Because he had a girlfriend with whom he had been together for 3 years. One good day I decided to call him and I told him everything, that I was in love with him and while believing that he will jump for joy since he was chasing me for several years. Imagine what he answered me: ‘well, I consider you as my sister and I returned with my girlfriend. You understand? So I don't want to talk about love anymore, I consider you my friend and if you have a boyfriend, please introduce him to me, I will tell him to take good care of you and all.’
You can imagine the shock I had. I need your advice. Do I have to leave him alone or do I have to fight, or you think he doesn't deserve me to fight for him. Should I turn the page? I'm waiting for you.”