“I fell in love with him without realizing it... I'm confused, enlighten me...”

“Here is my story and I need your advice... By the way there is a guy I was friend with over 2 years ago. At first it was his friend who was in love with me and he wooed me, but I didn't like him. This is the reason why I refused to go out with him at that time. Afterwards when his friend (and my friend too) found out that I didn't like his friend, he started hitting on me and told me he loved me and everything. But at the beginning when he told me that I was not in love with him, I just wanted us to continue our friendship. But over time we got along every day and I got used to him and him too.

Suddenly I fell in love with him without realizing it. But deep down I didn't want to tell him and I kept it to myself until the day I couldn't take it anymore because I was in pain deep inside. Because he had a girlfriend with whom he had been together for 3 years. One good day I decided to call him and I told him everything, that I was in love with him and while believing that he will jump for joy since he was chasing me for several years. Imagine what he answered me: ‘well, I consider you as my sister and I returned with my girlfriend. You understand? So I don't want to talk about love anymore, I consider you my friend and if you have a boyfriend, please introduce him to me, I will tell him to take good care of you and all.’

You can imagine the shock I had. I need your advice. Do I have to leave him alone or do I have to fight, or you think he doesn't deserve me to fight for him. Should I turn the page? I'm waiting for you.”