Love and family
23 September 2021, Seytoo
In our society, men already have everything they want outside of marriage, so why should they get committed?
You’ve been with the man you love for a long time. You are getting a little bit older; your friends are getting married. Now you are wondering when will be you turn, when will you man finally propose.
Hold on right there. Don’t rush. Before you waste your time and feel betrayed when your man leaves you, check out these signs. They may reveal you whether or not you have a future with your love.
From the beginning of your relationship, your man told you that he was not interested in getting married. Don’t neglect that statement. Believe in it and don't waste your time, if you are more interested in marriage.
None of your man’s friends, brothers, sisters, cousins, etc. are not married. Why would he then? Often, people are influenced by others they hang out with. Your man may also be influenced by his friends, cousins or siblings.
He sees marriage as a “financial arrangement in which women have the most to gain and men are tricked”. If that’s the way your man thinks, he will you see you as a burden in his life. He may play with you, but will definitely never marry you, if you are not financially independent.
He is a good talker who goes from one relationship to another. If he doesn't commit to anything in the first six months, then run away, otherwise he’ll make you walk too. Some men are just the way they are, they fear commitment, they enjoy their single life. If playing is what you are looking for, maybe you can stay with him. But if you are looking for a long-term relationship that lead to marriage. Run away and go find the right guy, because it is definitely not him.
He still lives with his parents. This is a big sign of a lack of responsibility. This shows that your man is not responsible enough to be a husband, to be a father, to protect you. He sounds more like a “loser,” and no one wants to hang out with “losers.”
Keep in mind that, if you don't raise the issue of marriage, you can be pretty sure your man won’t. Most men rarely tackle the issue of marriage, even if they think about it. Men are attracted to the physical but they marry women for their temper. For example, a man will tend to marry a woman who takes care of him when he is ill.
In our society, men already have everything they want outside of marriage, so why should they get committed? His conscience is in no way bothered to live in fornication because his values are modeled on that of the world and not on the Word of God which he considers outdated.
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