What is preventing me from changing my life?
Career & Success
They tell themselves deep down that their new existence will end up causing them to lose this being that matters most to them...Updated on January 16, 2021, Seytoo
It's decided: you will radically change your life. A new existence is offered to you, you want it. Only, deep inside you, you have this “je ne sais quoi” (I don’t know what!) that prevents you from fully savoring this new page. Here's how to recognize them.
One of the major obstacles that causes people to be afraid of changing their existence: the fear of failure. Many people say to themselves that they will be ridiculous if they do not succeed in what they intended to undertake when it is not. Within this framework, repeat to yourself this mantra: "Better to try and have failed than to have done nothing to succeed".
Another major obstacle is guilt: if a person thinks they do not deserve to be successful in their new existence, it is clear that their change of course is not about to be successful. So, before changing lanes, get rid of all guilt.
Dependence on others can also prevent a person from changing their existence: they tell themselves deep down that their new existence will end up causing them to lose this being that matters most to them. But know that if someone truly deserves you, they must support you in your attempt to change their life.