The fact of constantly improving ourselves helps us move forward in life and succeed. This is what makes human beings different from animals. We can change! Sometimes we make it worse, and sometimes we get better. Despite everything, there are a lot of people who stagnate; who do not change or they improve very little their lives for decades. So what are the questions to ask yourself for change? How do you really move grow? Ask yourselves these questions:
What do I really want? A person who knows what they want and who knows where they are going, is a person who can only improve and move forward in their life. So ask yourself this question. What do you want in life? What is your end goal?
Do I have what I want? Now that you know what you want, you must ask yourself if you have this thing you really look for in your life. Be direct, don't lie to yourself. Do you have it, yes or no? If you do not, why? What kept you from having it? Then do whatever it takes to get that thing you crave. It is easier for a successful person to change for the better.
Am I happy? Ask yourself that question. It is very important. Are you really happy? Is there one thing or one person that makes you sad or keeps you from moving forward in life. Make a list and then eliminate from your life every item and every person who doesn't want you to be happy. And if a person makes you sad without knowing it, tell them bluntly and fix it.