“I love her... but I am really exhausted!”
Love, relationship and family
She is not investing enough in the relationship. I do everything to please her, I call her and I write her every time, but I am under the impression that she doesn't care about me.Updated on January 15, 2021, Khalil
I'm in love, in love with a girl I met months ago. By the way, she was introduced to me by a friend, and from that day on I cannot think of anyone else but her. That day I took her phone number, I called her afterward to set time to meet her, and then I fall in love. But she told me that she couldn't go out with me just because she was already engaged. I refused to hear that. Therefore, I insisted for months and recently she finally accepted to go out with me. She told me that it is because of me that she separated from her boyfriend (one of my multiple calls has led to a conflict between them and then, they parted ways).
But today, my problem is that she is not investing enough in the relationship. I do everything to please her, I call her and I write her every time, but I am under the impression that she doesn't care about me.
Sometimes she tells me things that give me some hope, sometimes she behaves as if I had caused her harm! I do not know what to do. Her mood changes from one to the other. I love her, I want to be with her... but I am getting exhausted. And what keeps me going is my love for her and her age. She’s only 18 and I think that’s what makes things a little bit more complicated. But I'm tired!
I do really need your advice. I’m just 23 years old. Ladies, tell me if this is the way it goes. Gentlemen, tell me if one of you has ever faced and succeeded in such a situation.
Thank you in advance!”