As a man, is “being too nice” turning you into a loser?
Love & Family
Women in general lack self-confidence and need a man who is confident and able to protect her when needed so that she can feel more secure and live better.Updated on October 12, 2020, Matar
By too nice, we should rather understand men who are “too submissive.” Too submissive to whom? In general, we talk about guys who are too nice to women, like the guy who has listened a little too much to what women expect from a man, namely: nice, attentive, gentle, who respects her, etc... Unfortunately even though women say that these are the qualities they look for in a man, often men who have these qualities are not the best when it comes to romantic relationships.
Overly nice men are so good that they sweat insecurity and lack of confidence. They are so afraid of not pleasing that they do things for others in order to be loved, instead of doing it for the simple pleasure of giving or serving. Women never know with them if they are loved for who they are or if they have cast their melancholy on them out of desperation, because they have just given them a little attention.
They embody uncertainty, weakness, and worry - big targets for all predators since the dawn of time. There are women who use them - just looking to take advantage of them, sometimes without even realizing or daring to admit it. These women keep them at home for a while, flatter their egos, and throw them away.
So many of these kinds of men complain about women when the majority of the women they attract are the worst.
Independent, confident, emotionally balanced women (very rare) find them too clingy, abandoned and insecure. Overly nice men have little luck with these kinds of women and fall back behind those who are abandoned.
Women in general lack self-confidence and need a man who is confident and able to protect her when needed so that she can feel more secure and live better