Did you really know the secrets of a long and lasting love relationship?
Love & Family
What are the secrets of couples that last? Are they doing something different than what the rest of us do?Updated on October 15, 2020, Seytoo
Talking, communicating, cultivating new curiosities, making common projects, surprising others, seducing again and again ... Here are the secrets of couples in love for life.
Avoid distraction: When you share someone's life for a very long time, you may end up paying no attention to them, not seeing them anymore, treating them like you wouldn't dare to treat a stranger.
Finding new reasons to stay together: The reasons that make the couple are not the ones that make them last. Think about why you are staying in the relationship. Find positive answers...
Running away from routine: The couple's number one enemy is the boredom that arises from routine. Find ways to spice it up.
Spoil the other: Give compliments, invite the other to the restaurant, give him a gift ... Put a little fantasy in the couple!
Cultivate new curiosities: So that the couple can feed on discoveries and contributions drawn from outside, develop each person's personal activities, whether artistic, social or family, in order to arouse the desire to meet again.
Speaking, communicating: In a couple where one does not speak, love dies. Everyone has their own style: speeches, intimacy, humor, shared silence. But in a real exchange.
Confront conflicts without fear: It is not a question of avoiding conflicts, but of knowing how to manage them. So that the household scene does not degenerate, avoid contempt and humiliation. Start with: “It hurts me to see, to hear...” rather than “It's always the same with you...”
To seduce again and again: Why reserve for visitors or foreigners the treasures of being charming, listening and attention that we can be capable of?
Have common projects: Having memories is good. But having projects is life! Whether it is a trip, a house, a common work. Love is always to be lived in front.
Cultivate simple pleasures: Small pleasures and great pleasures. Each age has its own. And the more we advance, the more we find: in nature, music, the arts, gastronomy, affection, sex life.