How should you really choose your husband?
Love & Family
If your virtuous husband loves you, he will support you. If he doesn’t love you, he won’t go so far as to hate, wrong or despise you.Updated on October 16, 2020, Seytoo
Miss, do not be seduced by money, social rank or beauty, but rather choose the man of faith.
If your virtuous husband loves you, he will support you. If he doesn’t love you, he won’t go so far. He will not hesitate to hate, wrong or despise you.
The virtuous husband helps you instill a good education in your children. The satisfaction of relying on him will be mutual, which will bring about your happiness in this world and in the hereafter.
The virtuous husband will advise you if you are wrong and show you the truth. It is up to the man to choose the pious woman attached to his religion. She protects her house and her family from any breach of good character and respects her husband's right over her. The prophet said: “You marry a woman for four reasons: for her money, for her class, for her beauty and for her religion; choose rather the one who is pious.”
The Sunnah of the Prophet concerning the life of the couple shows that it is necessary to take into account the substance and not the form. The prophet said: “Surely Allah does not look at your faces and your bodies, but he looks at your hearts and your deeds.”
Islam has valued women by giving them the right to choose their husbands. He respected his will knowing that his decision is crucial for his life and his future.
Aisha asked the prophet:
- The girl her family wants to marry, should we have her consent or not?
- We marry her only after her consent, replied the prophet
"She's modest," Aicha told him.
"His consent therefore consists in his silence," said the prophet.
So, miss ... think beyond this world, think carefully about the choice of your husband ... because beauty and money are often fleeting ... only faith can remain eternal.