How to show your love to your children?
Love, relationship and family
In short, sustained attention makes a child feel the most important person in the world in the eyes of his parents.Updated on November 29, 2020, Seytoo
We show love to our children in 4 ways: eye contact, physical contact, sustained attention and discipline. Each area is as crucial as the others.
Most parents love their children. The basic problem is that we are not aware that we have to show our love to our children before anything else: education, leadership, examples, and discipline. Unconditional love must be the primary focus of a relationship with a child, or everything else is unpredictable, especially their attitude and behaviour.
Sustained attention is full attention, not shared in such a way that the child undoubtedly feels that he is completely loved. This proves to him that he has enough value in himself to obtain the vigilant, appreciative and uncompromising gaze of his parents. In short, sustained attention makes a child feel the most important person in the world in the eyes of his parents.
Sustained attention is the most demanding need in children, because it is difficult to recognize, even more so to meet. It is sometimes thought that giving gifts or special favours is enough, it's easier and takes less time, but it is a serious mistake if it serves as a substitute for sustained attention.