It's time to take your time... to unwind and reflect.

Two little magic words imbued with memories of childhood, which have been invested throughout the year of our secret dreams. For us, walks on the shore, extreme hikes, strolls, large family tables, romantic walks, shared marital secrets ... What a joyful program in perspective!

A summer to marvel

But are we really going to be able to achieve all these beautiful and, sometimes, crazy expectations? In addition, the change of rhythm or place of life, the new and seasonal conjugal and family proximities, can greatly upset our relationships with others. It will therefore be necessary to take the time to adapt to these small upheavals. This is also what holidays are: taking time. The time of each moment. The time of every moment. Live each relationship to the full. Marvel. Be delighted. Cuddle. Please ... To be fully aware of all that is given to us to live.

And for that, at first, it would undoubtedly be judicious to ask how the other imagines, even envisages, this time out of the daily newspaper, that it is professional, school or of family logistics: “How did you dream about this vacation time?” Then look at how this dream could turn into a project: “Have you imagined what could be done? And finally to make it a real achievement, by offering help for this implementation: “How can I help you achieve what you want?”

What about my inner life?

There is no need for big projects. But those we implement will be all the more successful than we will have prepared them, at least in broad outline. Worn with those who "vacation" with us.

This time away from various daily obligations can also be an opportunity to deepen relationships both with one's spouse and with one's children or parents. And to take stock of his inner life. Personal: “Where am I on the way of my life?”… And conjugal “What if we plunge back into our project of couple established during our preparation for marriage?” A great opportunity to be even better in harmony with yourself and your loved ones.

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