What to do with a man who can't stop lying?
Love & Family
Offer him an ultimatum: either he gets help, or you leave him, he has to make a choice.Updated on October 21, 2020, Seytoo
You know your partner is lying. At first, it started with little canards, then with bigger lies... And it annoys you, it makes you unhappy and above all, it makes you ashamed. So tell him? Oh sure he'll tell you that you don't understand him, that you're lying, after all, isn't that what all liars do? But at least now he'll know you're not fooled, so he'll be more careful...
... Which doesn't mean he'll stop lying. Old habits are hard to change. So, even if it's not nice, poke his nose into his lies. For now, do it in private, when you're just the two of you. List his lies and tell him how angry you are.
He's starting again? This time, that's enough. Do not be in lace, put his nose in it in public, as soon as he lies. He won't like it, but for you, it will relieve you and it will prevent your beloved one's lies from splashing you. Then offer him an ultimatum: either he gets help, or you leave him, he has to make a choice.