“I am in a dilemma, help me!”
Love, relationship and family
“I do not know what is on his mind but I feel that he loves me because he is there every time I need him.”Updated on January 19, 2021, Bigloup
“Actually I don't know where to start, I think I'll lose my mind. Once in my past I was betrayed by the man I loved the most in the world. I have been without a relationship for years and now I fall in love again but he is married. I do not know what is on his mind but I feel that he loves me because he is there every time I need him. However sometimes there are months of days without even receiving a short text, I spoke to him recently he asked me to wait for him to give him some time so that we are really together. My mother tires me out to get married because I refuse so many marriage proposals.
I told my mom and my brothers that I want to wait and I will wait for the one I’m in love with. Unfortunately he is married too. They all think I've gone mad now or I don’t know what I really want (which I don't wish the best for me); just standing there waiting for someone not only who's married but who doesn't know when he'll be ready to be with you.
What should I do, wait for the man I love or get married because I am under pressure from my family?”