“Should I get back with him?”
“I don't know what to think. The other one I'm dating is coming soon if he gets his visa. I am really lost. Help me please…”Published on July 22, 2020, Mimimaty
I'm a 27 year old girl, I was dating a guy when I was in Senegal, at the time I was 20 and in the meantime I traveled. And since I didn't want to be a traitor, I did everything I could to come back on vacation and marry him. We got married and I did everything to get him to join me. When he came, we started having problems because he often went out and came home very late at night with his friends. Subsequently the situation became unbearable for me and I decided to revolt. So I no longer did the cooking or cleaning, nothing. I even refused him because of the fact that he was making me suffer, and every time I tried to have a discussion with him it didn't work out, he called his family to unpack everything and his sisters allowed themselves to take sides for him by insulting me and calling me names. Her friends also got his head off like “don't let that girl walk all over you”, instead of giving her good advice.
Afterwards I left him and met another guy who I really liked. I can say that he had to make me forget all the humiliations and the sufferings I have had, but except that the guy is in Dakar. So when I got back from vacation we continued to date until now. But except that my ex wants us to get back together. He is making an effort to prove to me that he is not the same guy anymore, that he will do anything to prove to me that he really loves me and that he will show everyone that it is the truth. His sister threatened to abandon him if he returned with me under the pretext that I was going out with another guy.
I don't know what to think. The other one I'm dating is coming soon if he gets his visa. I am really lost. Help me please…”