Ladies, if you want to be taken seriously, you should start being serious first!
Society and lifestyle
Treating the gallery to have more “followers,” more “friends” or more comments shows how much you suffer from a lack of self-esteem, self-confidence or that you are simply a lost person.Updated on January 13, 2021, Anta
If in order to attract a man’s attention, you think it is necessary to show your assets (your body shape), you are wrong! I may not have specified it, but I write for women. I mean real women; those who don't sympathize with bullshit, those with well-founded principles and for whom giving up those principles is highly unlikely, and for whatever reason it may be.
Being a butterfly of social networks, I often see “girls” (yes they are girls because a woman worthy of the name behaves differently) publishing or defining in profile photos on which they pose in a suggestive or even vulgar manner. At first glance it baits, it’s always nice to see a well rounded buttocks or a pair of breasts. But when you think about it more deeply, do you think a man wants to introduce these kinds of women to his mom? To his dad? His brother? His sister? His friends? (Yes, his friends maybe, but that's it.) Do you think you are presentable? But above all do you think you are eligible to be taken seriously and to be respected? Ask yourself the question?
Treating the gallery to have more “followers,” more “friends” or more comments shows how much you suffer from a lack of self-esteem, self-confidence or that you are simply a lost person. If reading comments from strangers telling you that you are beautiful, sexy, or that you are “in good shape,” boosts your ego, there is a problem. Allowing a guy or a man to comment on your body, to talk to you in a certain way, to be disrespectful to you without you reacting, is your fault because a “well-trained” man (who knows who to deal with) would never allow himself such disrespect!
What bothers me the most on the Internet or even in everyday life is that some girls, under the pretext that they discuss “well” with “guys” are quick to reveal the smallest details of their lives hoping to get closer of their victims (your “guys” are victims of your behavior, we will come back to this in another post.) By revealing the smallest details of your lives, you and mister enter an era of artificial “intimacy.” Artificial? Yes artificial because while he is just chatting with you, you think you have him on your boot, but one thing most girls ignore is that a guy will never be embarrassed to chat with a girl who offers him everything “profits” for free. He has the habit.
Besides, I'm sure you’re not the only one he's talking to. Have you noticed how he has nothing to say when you have millions of things to say and when he finally decides to talk most of the time it’s not to say anything interesting.
To be beautiful and to know it is one thing, to seduce a man that you want is another, but to use your privacy for the benefit of anyone is a totally different thing.
Girls love to be outraged at guys whenever they get the chance, but know that in love, as in life in general, we get what we give!
My goal is to make you go from the status of a lost girl to that of a respected woman, so I have to tell you girls, respect yourself! Learn to close it and observe! Have a little common sense, get educated, and educate yourself! Be selective in your relationships (all types) and don’t accept anything that is not in your best interests. It's simple say to yourself “If I don't gain anything by doing this or that, I don't do it.” and when I say “win” I mean honorable things like respect and not damn comments on Facebook or Instagram!
PS: All the terms in quotes have a double meaning, ask yourself why!
To be continued ...